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Fight
War with a Universal Orgasm
By Debora Myers
The kind of connection most of us are
looking for in a love relationship obviously goes beyond the mere physical
frictional uniting of genitals, skin and hormonal release.
We know what we want, but some of us
don't know how to go about finding it. In the Ladyfire philosophy, we believe
that people must be ready and spiritually developed to be open enough for
soul satisfying unification to exist.
As humanity is evolving, it becomes common
knowledge that we draw to us what we are putting out. And yes, we are evolving
collectively as a whole. The negative aspects: wars, racism, hate we see
in abundance now are just the reaction and final purging of these elements
from our collective. The negative "stuff" comes boiling to the surface to
be released before a huge shift in universal consciousness. Sometimes it
takes a major slap in the face to get some of us to wake up and smell the
flowers. IE: War, Hate, and Racism…HOPEFULLY SOME OF US WILL WAKE
UP!
The same goes for us as individuals.
As we work on ourselves we are sometimes surprised at the shit that comes
bubbling to the top, usually as we least expect it. If you keep drawing the
same types of lessons to you then you obviously have not learned the lesson
yet. So before you go "hunting" for a new lover etc, take the time you NEED
to work on those lessons. But we mustn't have the attitude that if we do
A, B and C the right lover or life will come to us as our reward
automatically.
Who really knows what our life plan really
is. Maybe we have a lot of crappy Karma to work out. But then again, some
philosophies teach that wisdom erases karma. Meaning that if we truly evolve
beyond the fear based reactions and emotions and learn to love universally
without expectations, judgment, greed, jealousy, anger, all those difficult
ones then we may just be able to understand and erase the negative
karma.
Basically learn the lesson so that we
don't have to repeat it. It comes down to the fact that we don't really ever
know what is ahead. We simply have to learn to love life for what it is and
take it as it comes. Accept the light and the dark times. Embrace the
opportunities to grow!
Of course a lot of us think we're ready
to meet our soul mates and live this wonderful life of ecstatic bliss. Well,
most of us need to guess again. Our soul mates may not even be incarnate
on this plane of existence. Our soul mates may be living with someone else
and working out some old karmic dept or are otherwise engaged. We may be
wasting a lot of time looking to the future instead of learning to love the
present.
While you are learning to love the present,
keep your heart open to the universe and all your relations on this planet
and elsewhere. Visualize your love as encompassing the entire world. There
is enough love out there to fill your heart. When you learn to open to it
and give it freely it forever flows in abundance.
When petty feelings of jealousy well
up (That “stuff” that rises to the surface, i.e.: I was surprised
by a silly, little jealous twang I felt when I heard that my ex’s girlfriend
made my son’s birthday cake.) I acknowledged the fact that I felt a
little jealous, forgave myself then I looked at the positive in all of it.
Didn't I have a place in my heart for her that was giving to my child? Of
course I do. If I allow myself to open to universal love! She is my
sister!
On the grander scheme of things, do we
not have a place in our hearts for all our brothers and sisters, our earth
creatures and ethereal beings? Are we not all connected to one another in
creation? Of course we are. Open yourselves to love and recognize the microcosm
of yourself in the macrocosm of all our relations and creation! Amen, Blessed
Be, Namaste, Ho!
Let's all unite in love and create a
Universal Orgasm so strong, so powerful and so good that we push war, hate
and racism right out of the universe! But to do it we have to take care of
our personal petty little "issues" and be clear enough to receive and send
universal love. Get to work on yourself and let's recreate this planet in
the image of LOVE.
Debora Myers is the Founder and Executive
Editor of Ladyfire Magazine. Watch for our hot new booklet to be realeased
mid-December 'The Top Ten Sex Secrets Every Woman Should Know' found at:
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