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The Private Matters Of Premature Ejaculation
By Hunter Crowell
You're not likely to hear talk of it around the
company water-cooler, because guys just don't feel comfortable openly talking
about these things with other guys. But premature ejaculation afflicts more
men than any other sexual problem does.
The penis contains very sensitive nerves and
veins. Normally when the penis is stimulated, blood rushes into the veins
within the penis and this results in the stiffening or erection of the penis.
Seminal expulsion or ejaculations are controlled by the pelvic muscle and
this muscle is used to propel semen and seminal fluids through the urethra
and out of the end of the penis. Premature ejaculation occurs when the pelvic
muscle has become weakened and the man is prevented from controlling his
ejaculations to a point that is satisfying both physically and emotionally
to him and his partner. Because such problems aren't often discussed among
men, sufferers tend to feel isolated, weak, and inadequate at satisfying
their partner.
Unfortunately too, there has existed the absurd
misconception that premature ejaculation is somehow a measurement of a man's
masculinity. Such a stereotype only serves to isolate sufferers with feelings
of inadequacy, shame, etc. and also to discourage them from discussing these
issues with their doctor. Helping men to understand that this problem affects
many men and also making it socially acceptable to discuss more than just
the latest football scores, will go a long ways towards encouraging men to
seek the help of a medical professional when needed.
Most men will experience premature ejaculation
at least once in their lifetime. This isn't any thing to worry about unless
it becomes a routine occurrence. There are many things that can lead to a
problem with controlling ejaculations. If you are suffering from premature
ejaculations, you should consult your family doctor to further discuss all
of the possible causes that may be affecting your ability to control ejaculations
and to rule out more serious medical conditions that may be causing the
problem.
Researchers have found a genetic link to premature
ejaculations in men whose Father's and Grandfather's also experienced premature
ejaculations. Further research has also led to the discovery that among the
men that suffer from premature ejaculations there is often a heightened-response
to stimulation of the penis by super-sensitive nerve-endings in the penis,
combined with weakened muscle control. Doctors have found that anti-anxiety
medications and muscle-strengthening exercises, such as Kegel's have helped
many men to achieve more control over their ejaculations. Kegel's strengthens
the pelvic muscle and Kegel exercises are achieved through the sudden stopping
of urinary flow.
Stress can also lead to a man reaching the finish
line-just out of the gate. Worry about finances, job security, performance
anxiety, and communication problems within the relationship can all lead
to premature ejaculation. Depression can affect ejaculation control. Stress,
anxiety, and depression can lead to other sexual problems as well, including
the inability to achieve or maintain erections. If you believe that stress
or depression is at the root of your problem: it is highly recommended that
you speak with a professional who can help you learn ways to combat these
feelings so they don't affect you in the bedroom.
Sometimes even just the anticipation of a sexual
encounter can be over-stimulating to the penis and will lead to an ejaculation
just after beginning intercourse. This can be especially true when the sexual
encounter is with a new partner, or a different sexual position is being
tried for the first time. To relieve this anticipatory stress experts suggest
that men: masturbate to orgasm, either alone, or with their partner first,
and then stimulate the penis until another erection is achieved, prior to
engaging in intercourse.
There are medical conditions such as prostate
infections and cancers that can cause premature ejaculations. This is why
it is vital for you to make an appointment with your family doctor if you
are suddenly experiencing ejaculatory -control problems, to rule out these
very serious conditions. Over the counter medications commonly used for cold
and flu symptoms can also lead to premature ejaculations. These OTC, medications
can lead to a temporary inability to feel pleasurable sensations, while at
the same time intensifying the urge to ejaculate, which results in an overall
less-enjoyable sexual encounter for both you and your partner.
Men who are having a problem with premature
ejaculations shouldn't be discouraged as almost all incidences of premature
ejaculation can either be cured, or hugely controlled with the proper use
of anti-anxiety medications, exercises to build the strength of the pelvic
muscle, and even emotional health therapies. The exact course of treatment
needed to control or cure ejaculation control issues will vary among different
individuals and the extent of regained control will also vary among individuals
and is also very much dependant upon the underlying of the problem.
Hunter Crowell is a researcher, marketer, avid penis exerciser & creator
of Natural Penis
Enlargement , a site to help everyone find useful and accurate information
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