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Love Making Magic III
Reaffirming Passion with Your
Mate
By Debora Myers
Ok, now you’re feeling better and
more energized because you’ve been taking better care of yourself. No
more guilt trips, no more over-doing it…but your mate isn’t following
your lead and has been a stickler to be around. At home I’d use another
adjective but will refrain from my earthier descriptions in consideration
of our more ladylike sisters. He’s grumpy and short-tempered and the
last person you’d want to be intimate with. That does pose a problem.
How do you get him to mellow out and be responsive to your passionate longings?
He isn’t going to be the initiator of love when he’s grumpy and
stressed. You will have to be the dominant one. If dominant makes you feel
uneasy how about the “leader.”
Follow the Leader-
Let’s face it. Were just thinking
creatures that mimic one another. Look at fashion, religion, the way we
speak…everything we do is a mimic of another, only from different
angles.
Take the lead. Nurture him with kind
words and take the extra time to be thoughtful. Soften him up. It may take
a day or two…
Surprise him in the shower. While he’s
in the hot water, all relaxed and warm, slip in with him and scrub his back.
Rub him down good with your soapy hands and rub your body against his. Tell
him how beautiful he is and that you love looking at him. Everyone loves
to hear that!
After he’s all clean and you’ve
sufficiently teased him, dry him off with the towel. Make sure to rub him
down vigorously all over, It will help to stimulate his circulation and will
feel really good to him. Don’t forget to dry between his toes and his
jewels (being gentler with those of course, you want him to feel
treasured)…. Make sure you are totally naked while doing this, as you
are rubbing him down you will be jiggling in all the right spots and guys
being guys, well they like to see you jiggle. His mood should be improving
by now…
Take him into the bedroom and gently
push him to the bed and lock the door. Turn on the clock radio if necessary
(so he won’t be inhibited by the kids hearing him moan…) Continue
telling him how much you love him and how wonderful he is as you go down
on him. Now, shy little or big sis, whatever, don’t be inhibited by
the next set of instructions. He will love it, so get over being embarrassed
and just know that he’s going to be de-grumped by the time you’re
finished with him.
Make sure his head is propped with the
pillows..he needs to have a good view. Straddle him so that you are facing
his feet, with your rear and flower right in his face! The 69 position, but
don’t quite let him get to your flower yet. You just want him to watch.
He’s going to want you sooooooooooooooo badly by the time you’ve
followed these sextructions. Position yourself so that he can see your lovely
flower but also so that he can get a view underneath you to watch your breasts
moving and so he can watch as you give him head. Make sure to let your breasts
touch him once in a while…
Now, focus your attention on his genitals
and thighs. Lick him all over and then give him head. Spend most of your
time teasing his helmet, but once in a while take his entire shaft, (or as
much as you possibly can) but just enough to make him crazy. You want to
tease him for quite a while. Don’t let him touch you at this point.
You want to torture him. Smack his hands if he tries to grab, stroke or finger
you. (He’s gonna try, so make sure to tell him that he has to wait.
That you want him to focus entirely on the show and his pleasure.) You can
also touch yourself enticingly, show him a little more…but don’t
bring him to the exploding point yet. You want him to connect with you and
your heart, not your rear-view.
Give him at the very least 2o or so minutes
of this or until your back…gives out. Then turn to face him, straddle
him again and rub your yoni against his shaft until he starts to beg, then
plunge down on top of him. If you start the motion immediately he most likely
will explode, depending on how long you gave him head. You also want to make
a deeper connection and can do so by just looking passionately into his eyes
as he is inside you. Kiss him on the mouth, tease his lips with your tongue
and don’t let him thrust. Just clamp down on him with your body weight
and pin him down.
Then, before you get tired or a backache
or whatever love him for all you’re worth! You should be so excited
by now that you come immediately too. But this one was really for him. Sometimes
we need to give, in order to get. Don’t just wait around for him to
give you the treatment. While your laying together and he is telling you
how great that was, how much he loves you…you can suggest he show you
next time!
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