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Sex is
a Serious Thing!
by:
Amy
Guven
Most of the questions asked
to sexual health experts are about men's early ejaculations and women's orgasm
troubles. When you read this you may say: It's normal, if man is coming off
quickly, woman couldn't have an orgasm! But if you really think for a few
seconds, surprisingly, you won't see any relation between these two events.
Because, a man if he is not a boor, will prepare his woman to reach her orgasm
before his ejaculation.
The other highly popular question
is about the penis size! After all that porn movies many people are really
confused. How and where to find such a prominent organ? What is the normal
size? How thick and long can be the biggest? How small is acceptable for
lovemaking?
Every man's genital is different
as his finger print and the role of the penis size in a happy and successful
sexual relationship is not such important. At least you don't have to be
such stupid to pay sack full money to programs, drugs or advice for making
it bigger! Even with a huge organ a man's chance is very limited to make
her achieve an orgasm if he is not a good lover and doesn't know proper sex
techniques, most probably he will cause pain instead of
pleasure.
Even a man who has a miniscule
dick may be a perfect lover! The only way is to learn how to make better
love, how to be a better partner, instead of being paranoiacly distressed.
This is normal and this is your body, love it and try to use it more creatively
and with more love. Kiss and caress every part of your partner's body for
long time, arouse her enough, and go down and give her a nice oral love...
until she reaches the climax.
Believe me, every woman loves
and prefers such a talented lover in the place of a big dick entering a few
times into your vagina before spurting out and then sleeping in his side
as nothing happened! Naturally!
Having a small organ is not
a guilt, a crime, if he knows his body and has developed many better solutions
he is absolutely a CLEVER man and a perfect lover!
In regard to early ejaculations...
This, also, is not a crime and if the man has not an organic disorder, may
be corrected with some effort. But many men, instead of paying attention
to their situation, act like early coming off doesn't make any difference
in their sex life! Which may be true!
Actually you may consider the
natural disharmony between two genders. Men, by their nature, want to thrust
into a hole when aroused and squirt in, that's all! But woman needs a prior
preparation, a foreplay of at least 10-15 minutes to be concentrated and
ready for insertion.
One woman likes this position,
another may choose that position, many women request clitoris stimulation
besides men's thrusting... Many fatiguing services asked from men! And
furthermore, if a serious and passionate relationship doesn't exist between
partners, men are really exhausted in the bed. Is a natural error, an innate
lack of harmony exists between men and women?
Let see some different type
of early comers:
Type A: The worst. He doesn't
even know he is an early comer. When he likes, he takes the woman under him
and ejaculates. He doesn't care anything else! For the woman's orgasm? What
is that? He hasn't heard anything about woman's orgasm!
Type B: He knows about woman's
orgasm but act like he doesn't know. Same of the Type A, he pulls the woman
under and he comes off, the only difference, if by mistake or pain, woman
makes a weak sound like "ah" he will suppose she reached an orgasm but for
his comfort, he will never ask her the truth!
Type C: He knows his disorder,
he is sad and wants to visit a doctor but he is shamed or can't find the
time to go! As a foreplay he kiss and caress her a little but he can't wait
and comes off. Sometimes he can't even find times to thrust his dick into
her. He is sad but life goes on!
Type D: He is aware of his early
ejaculation disorder but he also knows his partner's orgasm right! So, he
will kiss and caress her at great length, give her a great oral love and
bring her to an orgasm. Then start to make love for himself and he comes
off. Because his partner reached orgasm before his quick ejaculation there
is no trouble. Partners are relaxed and happy!
That means, if a man is
understanding and clever the early ejaculation is not an important obstacle
on the way of a happy sexual relationship. Man may visit a doctor and try
to find the main reason behind this disorder and get a treatment which is
totally normal, but meantime he is kind and not selfish, gives her ultimate
pleasures to reach her orgasm.
An absolutely good sex for a
woman is a normal dick size, a foreplay at length, long kisses and caresses,
staying inside her long enough with many thrusting, knowing her favorite
positions and giving her the best pleasures... not insisting on what he wants,
but understanding her and giving her what she needs to get her
climax.
Please remember that if she
has reached to one orgasm in her entire life, she knows the best position
for her, and an intelligent man never insists on a new position which may
cause a lack of concentration, he will follow her
orientations.
Finally, what is the woman's
responsibility in creating a harmonious sexual relationship? Women must talk
and describe what they want clearly. Of course talking to the boors will
not produce a positive result but intelligent men may understand your needs.
Do not imitate orgasm or do not keep silent and sleep... talk to your lovers
and kindly explain your desires, if not you will lose your sexual desires
and even you won't be able to masturbate and get orgasm by yourself in the
future!
| About
The Author
Amy Guven is partner of
Vitalinfocenter.com
since 2000 and the author of famous eBook
"Amy's Tutorial -
Reshape your Womanhood" about better sex tips and techniques to improve
sexual talents and maximize happiness in relationships. Being highly successful
in its goal of making people sexually confident and happy,
Amy's Tutorial
has been sold thousands of copies till today. |
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